Tips or being good parents

Electronic media has affected both children and adults particularly boys and girls of 13 to 22 years old.Today there are certain changes in our social life and social traditions things thought to be odd in the past
now they are acceptable.
                                                                                       Today mothers. go out to work to fullfill their econmic needs and children remain without their parents at home
for many hours.In such conditions,it is a challenge to bring up children properly.To cope up with this challenge parents should be aware of certain effective methods.
Acording to experts the process of a child,s up bringing continues from infance to adulthood,including his physical,educational,social,mental and emotional growth.
physical health:

1. good food  2. regular exercise.
3. games      4. healthy habits

Mental Growth:

1. An environment where a child can get not only formal educatun but also learn social traditions.
2. A peaceful environment where there is justice and respect.
3. A terror free environment where a child feels protected.
Emotional Growth:
                         An environment full of he is being loved.
Emotional protection protects a child,s psychology as well.
Make your child onfident.Confidence plays an iportant role in the developement of a child,s personatity.
children who lack confidence,they soon become disappointed and get worried.
If they are confident they can face any challenge of this world children who are not confident they have certain complains:such as:
I am foolish
I cant do any thing.
No one loves me
I am looser.
children who are confident they enjoy their social relations.They set themselves easily in social events.They accept challenges and they know their strengths and weaknesses.
                 Child Developement Institule has suggested three principles for the growth of children which are called 3Fs.
Firm,Fair and friendly.Firm means a child should be told clearly that he should be punished at his mistakes and misbehaviour.
If he commits a mistakes,firmly stick to whatever you said.
                                                                                   Fair means child sould be punished acordin to his mistake.Dont give him harsh punishment.
Friendly means keep a friendly relation with your child.But he should know that he will be punished at his mistakes.
Parents should keep an eye on their children particularly at their friends because company affects a child, characer and personality.when your
children go out you  should know where they have gone and with whome?If your child has good company he will have good habits.Today T.V.
Internet nad video games have affected children,s physical growth.
and physical games such as cricket and fiitball are very essential for a child,s growth.
                                                                                                                          children are a beautifull gift of allah.
Their up bringing is parents first and formest duty.A child should be treated according to hid temprament,psychology and personality.
In this regard love and affection are very important love your children,your love will make them confident and they will be able to face all challenges of this world.